Sharing Your Bed: How to Teach Your Dog to Sleep in Your Bed (Without Losing Your Sleep)
Remember the first time I brought home my rescue pup, Bailey? I was determined to keep him in his crate, but one look at his big, pleading eyes, and I caved. Before I knew it, he was snuggled in between my husband and me, snoring softly. While it was cute at first, I quickly realized that having a dog in bed isn't always a walk in the park.
In my opinion, allowing your dog to sleep with you can be a great way to bond, but it definitely requires some training and boundaries. Here's how to make it a success:
The Importance of Consistency
Experts like the American Kennel Club stress that consistency is key. If you're not okay with your dog in your bed, don't let them sneak in even once. This will only confuse your dog and create unwanted habits.
Establish a Routine
Start by having your dog sleep in their own bed near your bed. Once they are comfortable sleeping in their bed, slowly transition them to the foot of your bed. This might take time, so be patient and positive.
Command and Reward
Use a simple command like “Bed” or "Settle" when you want your dog to get into their bed. Always reward them with a treat or praise when they comply.
Dealing with Nighttime Mishaps
Let's be honest, sometimes dogs wake up in the night and want attention. It's crucial to ignore any whining or barking unless they are truly in need. This will prevent your dog from learning that making noise gets them what they want.
The "No Bark" Rule
My personal rule is that if my dog barks more than twice, I get up and immediately take him outside to relieve himself. This helps prevent any unnecessary disruption during the night.
Remember: The key is to be patient and consistent. Just like with any other training, it might take time for your dog to learn the rules.
Ultimately, deciding whether or not to allow your dog to sleep in your bed is a personal choice. But by following these tips, you can create a harmonious sleeping arrangement for both you and your furry friend.